Newlyweds entering reception at historic wedding venue near Tulsa, Oklahoma
Celebration Spaces

Set the Scene for a Romantic Wedding and Reception

The Refinery is the ultimate wedding venue in Oklahoma that’s able to host your entire event from rehearsal dinner to reception, all in one place! It boasts two floors of flexible events space that’s ideal for large weddings, though corporate parties, private galas and more intimate events are beautifully hosted here as well. We even offer five private hotel suites in the adjacent historic Jewel Box Hotel that allows you to stay at the venue with your family and friends. Any event is highlighted by the historic architecture, authentic details and industrial style found throughout, and the iconic views of downtown Bartlesville can be admired from our oversized windows or private rooftop.

“I loved the fact that we could have our big day all in one place. 
It has unique little side rooms that was perfect for catering
and for photo booth set ups, and plenty of space for dancing!”

Ann B. | The Knot

Ceremony & Celebration Sites

Take a peek at some of our event spaces, then book a tour to see them in person!

Bride in Johnstone Sare Building with view of Bartlesville, Oklahoma
Corner Window Views

Most couples get married on the second floor in front of the broad curve window that wraps the corner of this refined Chicago School Building, with views in each direction and crystal chandeliers overhead.

Bride and groom kissing in Bartlesville, OK venue
Architectural Backdrops

The space is quickly reconfigured to have the ceremony under a grand interior brick jack arch or in front of one of our many tripartite window bays, all depending on the couple’s preference.

Bride and groom dancing at wedding reception
Flexible Reception Space

For larger weddings, couples wed on the second floor, and host their reception on the third. Each floor offers ADA bathrooms, catering facilities and elevator access – for an ideal one-location venue!

Group at table in elegant event venue
Single Level Celebrations

Smaller weddings and events can take place on the third floor only, which offers the same locations for ceremonies and seating, and looks lovely with guests seated at tables for a different feel.

Wedding couple kissing overlooking Price Tower in Bartlesville
The Rooftop at JSB

Soak up the views of famous skyscrapers while you capture a trademark photo from the rooftop of the Johnstone-Sare Building. The golden hour and sunset in Oklahoma are especially dreamy up there!

Lobby entry with red walls and vintage floors
Grand Lobby

Our grand lobby may soon be re-opened to serve as a greeting area for your guests or as the most elegant space for small weddings, meetings, and more. Keep watching… it’s a visual feast!

The Jewel Box Hotel Apartments

Bride sitting on bed in historic hotel in Bartlesville
Bridal & Lodging Suites

Get Ready for Your Big Day or Stay On-Site in Private Suites

The “Jewel of Downtown Bartlesville,” as listed in the National Register of Historic Places, is a 115-year-old historic building on the main street of downtown Bartlesville. Now named the Jewel Box Hotel, it was fully restored in 2015 and the apartments were added in 2017. All of our private accommodations include a queen-sized bed, renovated bathroom, a full kitchen, workspace, and all the comforts of home. Along with an elevator and keypad entry, these second-floor units offer convenient access through a private hallway in the historic Johnstone-Sare Building, where some of the biggest oil deals were struck, and historic figures like Frank Phillips and J. Paul Getty had their first offices.


Jewel Box Hotel Apartments Photo Gallery

Take a look at our five uniquely designed apartment-style suites, exclusively available as part of The Refinery event packages. Each Jewel Box apartment highlights a different color palette, with Jewel Box 1 being “Rubies and Cognac,” Jewel Box 2 being the “Diamond and Pearl Suite,” 3 is the “Emerald and Vermouth Suite,” and 4 is the “Sapphire Suite,” while the Bridal Suite is “Topaz and Champagne.” You arrive at your suite through the hall of enchantment, an interestingly angled pathway of some mystery winding through the space with a ceiling that glows like a lapis lazuli sky. Dreamy!

The “Topaz and Champagne” Bridal Suite

Jewel Box 1 “Rubies and Cognac”

Amenities & Policies


  • Bath products
  • Washer & dryer
  • Iron & hair dryer
  • Wi-Fi & smart TV
  • Heating & air conditioning
  • Smoke & carbon monoxide alarms, fire extinguisher
  • Full kitchen with refrigerator, microwave, stove & dishwasher
  • Cooking & dining basics
  • Coffee maker with coffee
  • Free street parking
  • ADA accessible
  • Elevator 52″ deep and 32″ wide


  • Self check-in with keypad
  • Check-in after 4:00 PM
  • Check-out before 11:00 AM
  • No pets
  • No parties or events
  • No smoking
  • Two guests maximum
  • Guests within a 120-mile radius must be 25 to rent a room, those further away must be 21.