Historic Wedding Venue near Tulsa | Oklahoma Wedding Venue

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Weddings & Receptions

Start Your Love Story in the Heart of Historic Bartlesville

We specialize in Weekend Weddings, and also host intimate affairs, elopements, and parties and events of all sizes. Our distinctive Bartlesville wedding venue, with its industrial aesthetic and unmatched character, offers everything you need to craft your dream event. We even have boutique hotel rooms with luxurious amenities, connected through a private hallway, that are available as prep space or overnight lodging in conjunction with your event.

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Event Facilities

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We’re committed to delivering the finest service to all our couples and will present all options available to craft your event your way. Our large event space provides a wide array of adaptable layouts, décor, and design possibilities to put together an event that everyone will remember for years to come.

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Event Spaces

See Our Ceremony & Reception Sites

Each part of your wedding requires a unique space to celebrate, and our Bartlesville venue can host them all. From pre-wedding gatherings like rehearsal dinners to your wedding ceremony and reception, our event space is ready to greet your guests seamlessly, and all on-site.

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Hotel Suites

Look at Our On-site Lodging & Bridal Suites

Weddings can often be busy and chaotic, but our on-site hotel suites provide the perfect place to relax with your friends and family, get ready for your big day, and get a good night’s sleep after the event. And since they are directly connected to The Refinery, you’ll have easy access and be able to avoid Oklahoma’s unpredictable weather.

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Wedding Packages & Pros

Start Creating Your Dream Event

Our Oklahoma wedding venue offers simple, inclusive pricing. Along with our list of vetted wedding professionals, our collection of wedding packages allow you the perfect starting point to design your dream event.

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Images & Inspiration

Start Imagining Your Unique Event

The historic charm and industrial style of our event venue provide the perfect canvas for your dream wedding.

Photo Gallery

Take a visual tour of our Oklahoma wedding venue and see how couples have styled their weddings in all seasons.

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Inspiration Blog

Get the guidance of your local wedding experts or get inspiration wrap-ups of real weddings in downtown Bartlesville.

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Have More Questions?

We’re always here to address any of your concerns, but you may find the answer in our FAQs!

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Google Reviews

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The Refinery was the perfect venue for my mother’s 90th birthday. It was decorated beautifully (Christmas) and provided a quietly elegant space. During the planning... read more
Cathy Gage

This venue was the star of the show. From the gorgeous chandeliers to the exquisite tile floors, every detail was unmatched. Additionally, Crystal, Sarah and... read more
Dalene Fisher

We loved photographing Bailey & Nathan's wedding at The Refinery. The staff was amazing to work with. The venue is gorgeous and has so many... read more
Blaine & Janae Russell
The Refinery is truly something special. The space speaks for itself. It’s stunning, warm, and photographs beautifully — but what really made the experience exceptional... read more
Madelyn Goodman

Just had our wedding here on November 2nd! Such wonderful experience! Both with the staff and the venue itself! The venue is a dream and... read more
Caitlyn Penrod

We had the best experience using the JSB as our wedding venue. We had access to the bridal suite to get ready in and it... read more
Alex Milligan
I hosted my daughters bridal shower here and the room was so beautiful. Lots of lighting and gorgeous chandeliers. Highly recommend. ...
Heather Richards

We had the best experience from the first tour of the venue down to the day of the event! Every staff member was extremely helpful... read more
Danielle Lowther

The best venue out there hands down!!!! We immediately fell in love with the venue and all the amenities it comes with. Staff is super knowledgable... read more
Austin Patrick-Brewer