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Weddings & Receptions

Start Your Love Story in the Heart of Historic Bartlesville

The Refinery boasts two levels of event space in Bartlesville’s historic Johnstone-Sare building. It’s the perfect place to host your dream Oklahoma wedding, whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand soiree! Our distinctive Bartlesville wedding venue, with its industrial aesthetic and unmatched character, offers everything you need to craft your dream event. We even have boutique hotel rooms with luxurious amenities, connected through a private hallway, that are available as prep space or overnight lodging in conjunction with your event. Book with us today and we’ll help make the process easier with our professional team for a smooth experience.

Event Facilities

See Where You’ll Be Celebrating

We’re committed to delivering the finest service to all our couples and will present all options available to craft your event your way. Our large event space provides a wide array of adaptable layouts, décor, and design possibilities to put together an event that everyone will remember for years to come.
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Event Spaces

See Our Ceremony & Reception Sites

Each part of your wedding requires a unique space to celebrate, and our Bartlesville venue can host them all. From pre-wedding gatherings like rehearsal dinners to your wedding ceremony and reception, our event space is ready to greet your guests seamlessly, and all on-site.

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Hotel Suites

Look at Our On-site Lodging & Bridal Suites

Weddings can often be busy and chaotic, but our on-site hotel suites provide the perfect place to relax with your friends and family, get ready for your big day, and get a good night’s sleep after the event. And since they are directly connected to The Refinery, you’ll have easy access and be able to avoid Oklahoma’s unpredictable weather.

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Wedding Packages & Pros

Start Creating Your Dream Event

Our Oklahoma wedding venue offers simple, inclusive pricing. Along with our list of vetted wedding professionals, our collection of wedding packages allow you the perfect starting point to design your dream event.

Images & Inspiration

Start Imagining Your Unique Event

The historic charm and industrial style of our event venue provide the perfect canvas for your dream wedding.

Photo Gallery

Take a visual tour of our Oklahoma wedding venue and see how couples have styled their weddings in all seasons.

Inspiration Blog

Get the guidance of your local wedding experts or get inspiration wrap-ups of real weddings in downtown Bartlesville.

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Have More Questions?

We’re always here to address any of your concerns, but you may find the answer in our FAQs!