Before you fall in love with a venue…
there are a few questions that can save you a lot of stress later.
Here are 7 things couples often wish they had asked sooner:
1. How many events happen at the same time?
Are you sharing the space—or is it fully yours?
2. Is everything in one location?
Multiple locations = more logistics.
3. Is there lodging on-site or nearby?
This changes the entire experience.
4. How much time do we actually get?
Not just hours—real time.
5. What’s included vs. extra?
Hidden costs add up fast.
6. What’s the flow of the space?
Ceremony → reception → transitions.
7. What does the experience feel like?
This matters more than anything.
At The Refinery at the Johnstone-Sare Building, many of these answers are built into the experience.
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”
— Benjamin Franklin
The right questions don’t just protect your budget—
they protect your peace of mind.
Ask the right questions before you book → https://therefineryok.com/
