Wedding ceremony at The Refinery in Bartlesville Oklahoma with bride and guests inside historic venue Bride getting ready with bridesmaids in bridal suite at The Refinery wedding venue in Bartlesville Oklahoma
Set the Stage

Your Dream Wedding in a Spectacular Setting

With two floors of ballrooms, The Refinery is able to host your entire event in one place – ceremony on one floor and reception on the other.

Our event space is perfect for intimate affairs to grand celebrations — up to 250 guests per floor.

Love the charm of small wedding venues? Our event space is perfect for smaller gatherings, too: elopements and petit weddings are very popular.

All our couples love our incredible historic architecture, but we also have invested in upgrades to offer superb year-round indoor climate comfort, an elevator, ADA facilities and state-of-the-art modern amenities. Guests’ comfort is one of the reasons we’re one of the premier places to get married in the Tulsa area, and attract couples from Kansas, Texas, Colorado, Arkansas and beyond.

When you are ready to plan the wedding of your dreams, contact our event coordinators who are ready to help make your planning process simple, seamless and fun!

 

See What Makes Us Different

Your Dream Venue! Every Detail is Perfection

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  • The JSB is truly a gem of a venue! Everything from the staff to the location and all in between is a fabulous 5 star... read more

    Rachel Kent

    This is a first class venue in every respect! I worked closely with the team to create a unique atmosphere. The ability to adjust the space... read more

    Chris Bedford

    Our PTO used this venue for the annual Mr. and Little Miss Dance and it was everything we could have asked for - beautiful, convenient... read more

    Alana Murphy
  • Very easy to work with and they were very helpful through the entire process!!! Would highly recommend having your wedding or other special event here!

    Amy Newby

    I have used The Refinery twice now for class reunions. Also, had a family member get married there years ago. The decor and ambiance is... read more

    Amy Emerson

    The best venue out there hands down!!!! We immediately fell in love with the venue and all the amenities it comes with. Staff is super... read more

    Austin Patrick-Brewer
  • This is a first class venue in every respect! I worked closely with the team to create a unique atmosphere. The ability to adjust the space... read more

    Chris Bedford

    Absolutely LOVED having our wedding and reception here! Crystal is awesome!

    Susan Artherton

    Just had our wedding here on November 2nd! Such wonderful experience! Both with the staff and the venue itself! The venue is a dream and... read more

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    Caitlyn Smith

 

Event Types

Let The Refinery Shine a Light on Your Celebration


Your guests will be delighted by the incredible views and an ambience of warm elegance.

The ideal venue in Oklahoma for all events – intimate to grand – including weddings, receptions, reunions, private parties, celebration dinners, meetings and retreats, galas, art shows, fundraisers, auctions, and more.

  • Just had couple of drinks and something to eat at Hideaway pizza

    David Kieselhorst
    March 11, 2026

    Lovely facility with such great character and event space. I especially love that you can pick different items from the prop room to help you decorate for your event.

    Alicia Smith
    March 9, 2026
  • I have used The Refinery twice now for class reunions. Also, had a family member get married there years ago. The decor and ambiance is so inviting and beautiful! So much was provided and available... read more

    Amy Emerson
    February 26, 2026

    The Refinery is truly something special. The space speaks for itself. It’s stunning, warm, and photographs beautifully — but what really made the experience exceptional was Jackie. From start to finish, she was accommodating, professional,... read more

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    Madelyn Goodman
    February 24, 2026
  • Excellent venue for our theatrical production of "The Old Long Ago"!

    Greg Williams
    November 24, 2025

    This place was quite literally the venue of my dreams! Everything about it is beautiful with so much thought and care put into the space! The staff there are also phenomenal, helping out with everything... read more

    Jayden brannon
    October 12, 2025
  • The Refinery at the Johnstone-Sare Building is such a beautiful venue, but what truly made our wedding day unforgettable was Jackie, the venue coordinator. She was an absolute saving grace! Jackie stepped in after someone... read more

    Kristin Ryan
    September 26, 2025

    As a wedding photographer, I loved this venue. It was so easy to photograph with so many backdrop options. The staff was very accommodating and we can't wait to shoot there again!

    Paige Bargas
    June 20, 2025
  • Crystal and Dana made our experience fantastic at The Refinery, we can’t wait to go back again!

    Mary lynn Mihm
    June 13, 2025

    Very easy to work with and they were very helpful through the entire process!!! Would highly recommend having your wedding or other special event here!

    Amy Newby
    April 22, 2025

 

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Have Questions?

Reach out to us by phone 888-733-1633 or text 818-336-5500.